For Man

Become esscentual man, you must understand, what woman want, what they really like, what can turning her on. Woman is different, they need to be heard, give your ear and your mind when talking each other. They hunger with touch, sensual touch, loving touch and sometimes wild touch. Playing with your lips on every part of her body also good to bring her to high level of sexual arousal and enjoyment.

Massaging
Take your focus on her neck, shoulders and upper back. Women tend to concentrate bodily tension on those part. Start with gentle pressure, and increase it if her comfortable with that. Put a small amount of oil, a teaspoon or so. And warm it up on your palm before apply to her skin by rubbing your palms.

1. The Welcoming Press
   Let her lying face down. Straddling or kneeling at her side, press gently down on her shoulder, on either side of her spine. Don't press directly on the spine during the massage. Give her a few momments to get used to the feeling of your hands on her skin. Then continue with backwarmer.
2. Backwarmer
   Warming her back. Movement is up, around and down with a flat hand, fingers together, palm in contact with her skin, move hands in parallel lines up either side of the spine, then out and across the shoulders, and down the sides of the torso. The purpose of this massage is bring blood to the surface of the skin, that will increase circulation and helps the essential oils penetrate the skin.
3. Kneading
   Start from the neck, shoulders and working your way down. If she looking more softer and more pliable thats mean you doing a great job. Do good communication to ask her which area need more attention. Add more oil if needed.
4. Raking
   Spread your fingers and keeping them stiff, rake them down the back from shoulders to buttocks.
5. Lower Back, Buttocks and Thighs
   Lightly massage with a circular massage on lower back and sacrum, continue with kneading on buttocks, hips and upper thighs.
6. Shoulder and Chest Press
   Kneeling behind her, as she lying face up, press down the shoulders and hold. Tell her to take a deep breath, and release it slowly. This will let the essential oil doing magic work through respiratory system. Slide your hands up and over her clavicle, or collar bone and press gently. Have a deep breath as you hold, then release. Move your hands to the center of her chest, between her breasts, and laying one hand atop the other, press gently, let her take a deep breath and release the press.
7. Open Sexual Energy
   Massage her neck, making small circles over the upper neck and about halfway up the ears. If this massage sessions is a prelude to lovemaking, its show time. Start the kissing begin. Tips: woman breasts are highly charged with erotic energy, give more attention on.
8. Next its up to you, do some improvisation and don't forget, always have a good communication, read her body language, is she like it? or distract? Be sensitive.
   

Bathing Together
Treat her like goddess. Bath her with following formula.

Ambrosia
ingredients

• 3 drops jasmine
• 3 drops rose
• 3 drops neroli
• 3 drops sandalwood

directions
Fill the thub with comfortably warm water. Add the essences, swishing gently with your hand to mix. Lets bath together.


Daily Esscentuals
After shave
put a few drop undiluted lavender, this will help rejuvenating cell of your skin. Help heal minor cuts and abrasions quickly. The aroma also attractive and fresh. Appropriate to a day at the office or an evening out.

Bathing
Rosemary, basil, eucalyptus, lemon and peppermint, singly or in any combination will clear the mind and wake the body up. Add a drop or two of any above essence to your shampoo or conditioner before applying to your hair.

Your car
Try jasmine, patchouli or rosemary, or any of the spice oils such as cinnamon, nutmeg, coriander or clove blend with citruses. Good for attracting positive female attention.

On the bed
Try ylang-ylang, rose benzoin or geranium when you have a company. Lavender, mandarin and marjoram when you sleep alone.